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What if in a spy movie the opposing spy agency their spies to seduce the protagonist in order to get their secrets and stuff.

First they send in their sexiest person, but protag declines their advances. Then the spies send in the next person and again protag declines their advances. This goes on…

Being confused about what sexual attraction might be and wether or not it really exists and how it would feel like and if it is really just a mix between aesthetic attraction and sexual feelings (can one compare it with arousal?) and wether or not it involves sensual attraction or if it’s just about the aesthetics and wanting to get sexual with someone or…?!
Are allosexual (non-asexual) people more ashamed to talk about sex and sexual attraction because they feel it while they talk about it? Does it even exist?! What the fuck is sexual attraction?! How can you feel something sexual if you look at a person? How does it work?! Wtf?!

The everyday life questions of an asexual. (via perksofbeingace)

So true. As much as anon-asexual can fail to understand what the hell life is like without sexual attraction, I at least fail to imagine what life would be like WITH it to the same degree.

(Source: hannahklarachloe)




how do you know youre asexual if you havent had sex???

how do you know you arent sexually attracted to toothpaste if youve never slathered your genitalia with it and shoved the tube up your anus????

how do you know?????

You have some shockingly good points. Just a second

Update: I am not sexually attracted to toothpaste

(Source: megachikorita)

Time for another ‘nevously sharing your experiences’ post

So my boyfriend of 3 years gave me a promise ring a little while ago. His exact words were “It’s not and engagement ring but it’s a promise of someday”

I was so happy I almost cried.

But I was also so guilty feeling. That seems to go hand in hand with all relationship things with me. Guilt and anxiety, the accessories I’m never without.

I know e loves me, three years and a rig prove it. But I worry still that it will one day end.

Because it’s a good thing. Good things always end. And when It ends it will be my fault for my asexuality.

I know it won’t be my fault. I know that there’s nothing wrong with me.

I guess that’s why I run this place.

To remind not only you all of that, but to remind myself as well.



I was so disappointed in that episode.

Ok but I remember watching this episode with my parents before I knew what asexuality was, and at the beginning of it I was like ‘oh there are other people with no sexual interest!’ And then at the end I was like ‘oh never mind, I guess I am broken’

yes. massively disappointed in that episode as I said. I liked house. It was one of my favorites once upon a time. When I heard they were doing an asexuality episode I was excited. Then I saw it. Dreams crushed.

(Source: asexualityresources)


A lovely anon sent me their own answer to my original anon question about why aces are scared to come out. I have put their answer below. Thank you anon for the wonderful and heartfelt answer.

To the Anon that didn’t understand the fear of coming out as ace

Unlike queers of thirty years ago,…

I’ve been wanting to make a post like this but really you said it better than I ever could

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