Being confused about what sexual attraction might be and wether or not it really exists and how it would feel like and if it is really just a mix between aesthetic attraction and sexual feelings (can one compare it with arousal?) and wether or not it involves sensual attraction or if it’s just about the aesthetics and wanting to get sexual with someone or…?!
Are allosexual (non-asexual) people more ashamed to talk about sex and sexual attraction because they feel it while they talk about it? Does it even exist?! What the fuck is sexual attraction?! How can you feel something sexual if you look at a person? How does it work?! Wtf?!